How to get a girlfriend: 15 tips alpha males won’t tell you
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The classic techniques of extended eye contact, smiling and compliments work well. Make it clear you’re interested as more than a friend but don’t come on too strong otherwise she won’t think you’re looking for an actual relationship. Girls love confident men. Fact. Over-thinking everything and being nervous or afraid is not going to make a girl find you attractive.
5. Fake having the same interests.
After the first time you’ve slept together, don’t be so available. If there’s no scarcity, there’s no interest. Why do people rush to the supermarket in a drought?
If you’re single and you want a girlfriend, the first thing I recommend you do is read my page about Dating. I was able to meet women, get their numbers, and sleep with them. But after doing that for a while, I realized it’s not what I really wanted. It was more about building up my ego and self-esteem by getting lots of validation from women.
When you do that, you will see that many of the women you meet feel attracted to you. You are always able to flow from one step to the next, so you can get to kissing, sex and then into a relationship if you want that as well.
- Don’t try and be too direct or flirty.
- When opportunity knocks, answer the damn door!
- Call or text the girl you are interested in within one to three days.
- This is actually a fairly easy step, since you probably know where to meet women because you know where women are (everywhere).
Don’t spend too much time flirting in messages. Nothing beats a face-to-face interaction.
Present her with a concrete plan she can’t refuse. When you know what you want, and don’t want, in a relationship, this puts you into the role of the selector.
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It’s the icing on the cake. You could maybe even organise the ride before the end of the date. Women like a guy who plans – it bodes well for any relationship moving forward.
Don’t Sleep With Her Super Quickly…
Women are more emotional than us men, and they like to argue emotionally. Plus, the hotter she is, the more she’ll usually test you by doing seemingly crazy shit. As a man, you need to know how to lead women. It doesn’t matter if you just met her at the bar or if you’re married to her – you need to always be leading and taking initiative (this is one of the most important aspects when it comes to how to get a girlfriend).